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Are you married in school but single at home

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising ‘wifely functions’! Just visit the boys’ hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment ‘you look sexy my gal’ and she would gladly reply ‘thank you honey’ with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association.6 So, the girl need to live in with him to prepare along. What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I’ve seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look ‘campussy’ and sexy enough for the guys. In months, they would start sleeping around with
little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the ‘best couple award’. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than. You give your virginity to a boy who will definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open
your eyes! Can’t you see you’re being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of unwanted
pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a
coward who cannot stand before your father.
And when you eventually gets pregnant, he
would brutally advise you to abort it and you
would timidly agree; then face the consequences
later. What a shame! You may master the use of
condoms but you can’t master the punishment
of your conscience.
Don’t you know you are bringing shame to your
family? Don’t you know that you are cursing your
mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not
even a man) without her consent? I cautioned a
girl against sleeping around and she replied
‘Sheddy, I don’t sleep around; its only one
boyfriend I have and am faithful to him’. What
impunity! That’s classified harlotry. And don’t
you know that sleeping with a man without your
father’s blessings is bringing a curse to your
future? What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would
use you and dump you; so why are you setting
up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind
you that you are a lady and one day you may get
married. And your husband would know that
you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with
anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding night
is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the
certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you ‘sexy’
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch
your breast and you would smile? They would
ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you should
be rude or never live a ‘social life’ but I want you
to think deeper than you are currently doing. I
want to turn your attention back to your books.Lord
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So,
pay less attention to those boobs and give more
attention to your books! You are not in school
for cat walking show. You are rather here to
show us the dignity of womanhood. You are
here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why
make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my
heart and that’s why am sounding stern. I know
about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now
they can’t even even count how many abortions
they had for that same boy sch bae it’s now like
a normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed for
4months imagine how you do feel with ordinary
4 dayz of menstruation left alone living with it for
months.. As a matter of fact one of them have
damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive of
contraceptives she has taken to prevent
pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and
think of what advise you would give your own
daughter when you become a mother. I hope I
have not offended you…if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do
not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and
keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud
of you. And God is more proud of you. Please
share this message with all your friends and let’s restore some sanity.

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